Today as I was walking through a store, I spotted a monkey which then reminded me of this.
I came across this Polish Proverb a few weeks ago. This reminded me of a boss that I had when I was a 20 something. He used to talk about the monkeys on his back. The office staff even bought a stuffed monkey to put on his shelf behind his desk chair.
I wished I could have shared this Polish Proverb with him. He would have enjoyed it.
As I was searching for the Polish Proverb, I also found this.
My boss would have loved this. As I continued to reminisce about the boss that I had as a 20 something, I was reminded of all the great lessons that he passed on to me. I hope that I can pass even one lesson on to the 20 somethings that I currently serve with.
Lessons from Pat included
mercy
extravagant generosity that he demonstrated and
that only very few people were aware of
how to handle difficult people on the phone
(It was a financial aid office at a university.)
how to handle constant changes in government regs regarding financial aid
laughter in the workplace in the craziness of financial aid
generous to his staff
love for God always
love for others regardless how they treated him – unbelievable love and mercy
Thank you, Mr. Pat Duncan!
The above picture is from his quartet days – long before I knew him.
This is a picture from the yearbook in 1980. Yes, this pictures bring back a lot of memories. In 1980 I was a student at this institution of higher learning. I began working for Pat in 1984.
I wish that I could call you on the phone, Pat, and thank you for taking on me as a 20 something.
Below are the lyrics to a song that Pat sang and lived!
He’s Been Faithful to Me!
In my moments of fear
Through every pain, every tear
there’s a God who’s been been faithful to me!
When my strength was all gone,
when my heart had no song,
still in love He’s proved faithful to me.
Every word He’s promised is true.
What I thought impossible,
I’ve seen my God do.
Chorus:
He’s been faithful, faithful to me.
Looking back His love and mercy I see.
Oh, though in my heart I have questioned,
even failed to believe,
He’s been faithful, faithful to me.
*****
When my heart looked away,
the many times I could not pray.
Still my God, He was faithful to me.
The days I spent so selfishly,
reaching out for what pleased me,
even then God was faithful to me.
Every time I come back to him,
He is waiting with open arms,
And I see once again.
Chorus:
He’s been faithful, faithful to me.
Looking back His love and mercy I see
Oh, though in my heart I have questioned
Even failed to believe
He’s been faithful, faithful to me.
*****
In my heart I have questioned,
even failed to believe,
Yet he’s been faithful, faithful
In my heart, I have questioned, I’ve even failed to believe
Yet you’ve been faithful, faithful to me!
Thank you, Pat, for a life well lived and for sharing it with a 20 something who remembers those many lessons!
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